When we adults are caught up in our grown up thoughts and dilemmas, it’s easy to dismiss the concerns of the little ones. These may seem trivial to us, but to them, it’s their whole world. Having children teaches us empathy, and when we empathize, we model this important skill to our kids.
Little Things
The little things of the little ones
May seem little to us big ones
But these little things are big things
Like losing a doll or broken airplane wings
These little things that make them sad
And little things that make them glad
Like playing with a beloved pet
Or when a playdate with cousins is set
Like reading to them a good book
Or making them laugh with a silly look
Us big ones must not dismiss these little things
Empathize, respect our little ones’ feelings
What about the little things that seem trivial to others but matter to us? Like an introvert’s personal space which she values, or the feeling of overwhelm when someone requires an answer to every question directed at her.
Being with my children reminds me that I was young once, with an imagination that soared and fascination that knew no bounds. That is what I need now to pursue my dreams. My children let me open my eyes to little things, these little details, that make this world an interesting place, a wondrous creation of God.
What do you think are the little things in life that should not be taken lightly?
I must say that this is quite a post. Rare nowadays and very refreshing.
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What a great perspective! Being around my young son is such a blessing because it teaches me to be more appreciative of the blessings and little details around me.
I love your poem! 🙂 And I agree with you, having little ones around remind us of the little things that make us happy, but we often overlook.
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There are little things that should not be taken lightly of like your child’s smile or hugs or pagpapapansin. I kid you not when they grow up and stop being so expressive of it all because we got a little too busy about the big things like bills and business.. 😀
Oh, so true!
Beautiful things should be cherish. Being a child is always a best part of our lives. Thanks for your insights!
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Did you write that beautiful poem? I like it so much. Reduced me to tears. When we’re adults, we tend to take for granted how our little ones feel, what’s important to them, the things they care about….
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Yes, I wrote that. Thank you, May!
Love it! Very well written.
I love being surrounded by children because they help me forget all my problems.
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I know what you mean!
Very inspiring. I can feel your love to your children. Little things na dapat naa-appreciate natin.. Thanks for this mommy!
Mommy Cym you’re such a great poet, I can feel your love for your children with your written words. Are you the one who draw the image? it’s really amazing!
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Thank you, Rea! Yes, I was the one who drew the image. Thanks, again. 🙂
Beautiful post 🙂 Sometimes, we, parents, tend to forget that the clock is ticking and our kids won’t be kids anymore in a few years. We have to savor each moment with them while they are kids and while they are still clingy to us. Thanks for this wonderful reminder!
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Our part as a parents make a big impact on our kids future. I’m always grateful having 2 wonderful kids that always makes me smile.
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Every little things that my kids does, especially my son are what I’m always looking forward too..
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Sleep. I know this could be trivial to most people but I can’t function fully without getting enough of this 🙂
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Oh I love this poem! As a person with Type-A personality, it’s a hard skill for me to take the “little things” seriously. Thanks for this reminder!
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Kids always reminds us on how to value simple and little things. Our son is very grateful when we handed him a couple of mentos candies as a rewards for the stars he got in school. Sobrang saya na sya.
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I must admit sometimes I’m guilty of overlooking the “little things” of my kids but they are quick to remind me and I try to make up. I agree that it is very important that we always give our little children the attention that they need and want.
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My son never fail to each us the value of little things in our life. He always reminds us to appreciate those little things and most of the times, these little things matter more.
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The poem is really nice and wonderful. I realized how we as MOM/ parent big impact to our children growing. It so cute when they have this sad face when they can’t find their favorite toy.
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So true! It’s the little things that make life big! 🙂
There are many little things that we fail to pay attention ( me included) . I think the most guilty one is not showing appreciation for others.
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Since I live with adults (seniors), there are little things that matter to them, too, like watching their favorite soaps or bringing their favorite snacks home. I value time and friendship so a simple text or even a message on Facebook matters to me.
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